Finally God!
Note: this posting is not about existence. It's about the relationship.
It's a bliss to have someone who gives you the assurance that "it wasn't your fault." Someone who takes the bag of bricks of feeling guilty, of what ifs, of should haves, and the pressure of daily life, and sets you free. There is nothing else to it, or at least I can't see it.
Sometimes, it is not enough to "know" that "it wasn't your fault", and that you have done all you could. There is a comfort in hearing it from others. More important, in stormy waters, one finds an incredible sense of calm and security when he can take the load of responsibilities from his shoulder and wash his hands from the consequences and refer everything to someone else.
And last, is having a powerful friend. Just the illusion of having such friend brings incredible peace of mind. When you have the feeling that "if i can't, he can", "he'll fix it for me", "he'll take care of everything".
The question is, even if one knows that the concept could be a self delusion, if it helps one to live happier and more peaceful, should one take it? More important, if one decides to take the path of self reliance, what mechanisms are needed to deal with the side effects of sufferings and hardships? How can one deal with issues surrounding immortal's life, using immortal's tools?
It's a bliss to have someone who gives you the assurance that "it wasn't your fault." Someone who takes the bag of bricks of feeling guilty, of what ifs, of should haves, and the pressure of daily life, and sets you free. There is nothing else to it, or at least I can't see it.
Sometimes, it is not enough to "know" that "it wasn't your fault", and that you have done all you could. There is a comfort in hearing it from others. More important, in stormy waters, one finds an incredible sense of calm and security when he can take the load of responsibilities from his shoulder and wash his hands from the consequences and refer everything to someone else.
And last, is having a powerful friend. Just the illusion of having such friend brings incredible peace of mind. When you have the feeling that "if i can't, he can", "he'll fix it for me", "he'll take care of everything".
The question is, even if one knows that the concept could be a self delusion, if it helps one to live happier and more peaceful, should one take it? More important, if one decides to take the path of self reliance, what mechanisms are needed to deal with the side effects of sufferings and hardships? How can one deal with issues surrounding immortal's life, using immortal's tools?
posted by Ahmad Khoshnevis at
5:35 PM
1 Comments:
"A true friend is someone before whom you may think aloud."
I just found ur blog and I am enjoying reading it.
Hope 2 C U and dear Bahareh
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